Mostly through adversity, do you really learn who you are. You will learn your likes and dislikes, your tolerance level and your limits. But, most of all, you will learn your weaknesses and the true depth of your strength. As humans, we are naturally designed to survive. And you will notice that you only become stronger after each fight, after you have overcome the struggle. They may have won the battle, but you are a fighter and a survivor and you will win the war.
Women wear SO many hats. We are mothers, sisters, wives, girlfriends, daughters, employees and we’re expected to wear all of our hats with grace. I have to admit, sometimes it gets to be too much!
I just recently published an article about how women should handle themselves in Corporate America. Did you feel overwhelmed reading it? I felt overwhelmed writing it….LOL. Now it’s time to let your hair down and do something for YOU! You already know you deserve it. You don’t even have to have anyone tell you that you do. You KNOW you do! Just go DO YOU!
Get your nails done every week…why not….you paid your bills so go treat yourself. Don’t buy the kids something else they DON’T need with YOUR nail money. Just saying. Go ahead and be selfish sometimes. Men are. The kids definitely are. Now YOU are too!
Get your hair done. Get a new dress or new slacks. Your man won’t take you out? Get dressed up and dance the night away with your girls! When you LOOK good, you FEEL good then you can wear your several hats even more effortlessly. 🙂
How I want to pamper myself? I was recently looking at luxury cars. I’m ready to upgrade my ride and tool around town in style! Why not? I work super hard…all day, every day while trying to juggle my relationship, my kids’ committments, my higher education, my career…and sometimes…I forget who I am or where I fall on the list. I haven’t gotten my feet or hair done in months. However, I have been holding off purchasing anything too large because I’m enjoying my financial freedom.
Nevertheless, do what works for you. Remember that you have to take care of yourself before you can take care of anyone else. And you can’t question that you’ll look and feel more awesome in those boardroom meetings or while at work, calling the shots.
Go ahead! Pamper yourself….You deserve it!!!
I’m feeling good! I woke up this morning with TONS of energy. Yesterday, the whole family piled in the car and headed to the Rec center. My sons had swim practice and I had a determination to get back on the horse…er…wagon…LOL.
After we dropped our sons off at their swim class, my s/o and I checked out some of the drop-in fitness classes. The classes didn’t seem to be high impact enough so we decided to do our own workout. I was kind of bummed because I mainly joined to do the classes and get my 30 minutes of working out in. Easy Peasy, right? Nope. The people in the classes were barely moving. If I want to lose weight, I have to move more than they were last night.
My s/o and I lifted weights and we did cardio. Can I say “Great workout!” Yes I can! I feel excellent this morning! My arms feel strong and toned even after one day and I DEFINITELY have more energy. I am enjoying picking up things just to feel my muscles at work….LOL.
I weighed myself and I am down 1 pound. I weighed in at 189 lbs. Good stuff, right? I would say so. I decided to not overdo it and gradually adjust the way I eat and adding working out to my life for life. This is a lifestyle change. Not a “lose weight fast” gimmick. I can’t treat my life like it is a joke because it definitely isn’t.
You know what I also love about this lifestyle change? The effect it has on my children. 🙂 My oldest son said he saw me and his dad working out. I LOVE that. I NEVER saw my mom workout but my dad ran for miles all the time. My mom was around me more but even just seeing my dad run as a little girl helped me to become a runner. I love to jog but somehow I lost my way after hurting my knee in the Army, having kids, etc.
But NO more excuses. This is me for life. I can’t wait to see where I am going to be at the end of this challenge. If I stick to it, it has to be better than where I started.
This is a picture that I keep on my desktop slideshow for motivation. 🙂 Feel free to “steal” it.
“It’s not how many times you fall but how many times you get back up.”
This was the first thought I had when I woke up this morning. My 30 for 30 Weight-loss Challenge went out the window this weekend. EPIC FAIL! I ate, drank and was merry. When people say losing weight is an ongoing battle, they are not lying. I am up to 191 lbs. What?! How did that happen? I ate pizza, Mickey D’s ice cream, drank wine and didn’t work out once. I think I pretty much threw everything out of the window for a number of reasons. First, Brandon and I got into an argument. There was silent treatment pretty much all Saturday. I have learned that I am an emotional eater/drinker. When I get stressed or angry, I eat and drink. I lose pretty much ALL self-discipline. THEN my sister asked me if I could watch my nephews and niece while she went out of town. I love them to death but watching 3 children on top of my own 2 is not the best way to go when I am trying to do something as difficult as give up enjoying my wine on the weekends. Wine helps me unwind and with 5 screaming kids running around our tiny apartment, I felt the wine was necessary so I wouldn’t go insane.
So I fell off the wagon…HARD! One loud thump. But you know what? I refuse to give up because of a setback. And you know what? I thought writing this blog would make me feel like I am reliving my failures because I knew I would fail. Let’s face it. My challenge is pretty aggressive which is why it is considered a challenge. I am pretty hard on myself in every aspect of my life so I couldn’t imagine approaching dieting any other way.
Writing to you all keeps me honest AND helps to motivate me to be my best. It’s something about having the whole World possibly reading my blog and holding me accountable. I cannot lie once I attach my name to something. And it’s refreshing to be writing again and getting to be so brutally honest about my life. I hope my struggles and triumphs help someone out there. It’s almost like my own little online reality show/drama…LOL.
Ok. So I have been doing great as far as saving money so I was going to wait until I got paid to buy a membership with our Rec center. But I went ahead and did it. I purchased a Rec center membership for my entire family. My sons are already taking swim lessons there and the membership allows my s/o and I to take any class we want for free. We can also use the gym equipment, etc. I am willing to do whatever I have to do to stick to this challenge. I want to be an inspiration to my children, my s/o, my friends and family, my coworkers, you all….and mostly, myself.
I have been eating pretty well today. Yogurt for breakfast. 1 Vitamin water, 1 bottled water and an Amy meal from Whole Foods. The Pesto Tortellini meal for lunch wasn’t that great so I didn’t eat the whole thing. I actually have to run and get my snack.
I was thinking of starting completely over but I feel like my setback over the weekend was part of my 30 day challenge.
Take care and talk to you all soon!
We rode bikes! Brandon and I rode bikes yesterday for at least an hour then we did 10 sprints in the parking lot of our apartment complex. I ate pretty well. I can’t remember everything I ate but I know I had 2 PB&J’s right before bed. Not good, I know but I was starving after working out. My food that I ate at work should be in my “Day 3” post.
Today, I ate 2 hard-boiled eggs and the turkey/artichoke panini from Panera bread with chips. I only ate half of the panini and chips because I was feeling somewhat guilty for eating off of my diet. I also had 2 or 3 of those cookies that come in a Panera Bread cellophane packaging.
Also, I have been drinking water with Airborne to help battle my lingering cold. I woke up at 3am this morning and felt miserable. Very cold in my room, somewhat stuffy nose and all the coughing. I usually can’t sleep if it’s too warm, now what would typically be comfortable for me is feeling too cold. My neck still hurts on the left side which is something totally unrelated to my diet but occurring to me nonetheless. I think the neck thing might have something to do with the heavy purses I carry around or perhaps I am sitting incorrectly all day for 8 hours out of the day at work.
Anyways…I am down to 187 lbs. which is good. I am still expecting to be down to 180 in the next 7 days. Yep. I said it. I want to lose 1 pound a day. How am I doing it? Eating under my calories and working out for 30 minutes a day. Basically, A LOT of discipline.
I’ll talk to you all soon and I hope to have some pics up soon. I do most of my blogging at work and my pictures are not at work. .
So it’s Day 3 of my 30 for 30 Challenge and I have to say that I am thoroughly enjoying myself. I feel great and I, honestly, wondered why I felt that I needed to come home every day and drink my daily glass (sometimes glasses) of wine. I was using my wine to cope with boredom and stress from the job. Now I am exchanging my glass of wine for fun activities. I realized that I was dreading going home because after work, I wanted to do something fun and home wasn’t really fun. I was at work all day and sometimes it was boring then I would go home and do the usual mommy/wifey stuff…which, let’s face it, isn’t always the most exciting part of my life. I mean, things like checking homework, making dinner, a little cuddling (for quality time) have to be done but it doesn’t mean these things are high on the Excitement List.
Now that I have fun, healthy activities to look forward to, I don’t miss the wine at all. It’s weird but I don’t. I am proud of myself for being healthier and I have fun things to look forward to do after work so life is pretty good.
I ate pretty well yesterday. I probably should not have had 2 PB&J’s right after my 9 o’clock workout but aside from that, things are going well. I did 30 minutes of walking because that’s about all I had time (and the energry) for after Jae and Avi’s swim lessons, watched a couple of shows then headed to bed so I could try to get 8 hours of sleep. I didn’t get 8 full hours but I was close. Probably more around 6-7 hours.
I weigh about 188 lbs.right now. I am fluctuating near the 190 mark but I was doing that before my 30 day weight loss challenge. I am ready to see a significance weight loss of about 10 lbs. or more. Plus Aunt Flow is itching to come visit any minute which might have something to do with bloating/water weight gain. 😦
Today, I ate my usual breakfast of 2 hardboiled eggs and a yogurt. I skipped lunch because I am not feeling hungry even though I feel I will have to eat something before I head home. I had a vitamin water and a bottle of water. I think because I have been running around in meetings and the bathroom, I haven’t had time to really worry about eating. TMI moment coming up but I want to be VERY honest with you all when it comes to my diet routine so if it works, you all can benefit.
For some reason, I have had to do number 2 a lot today. It doesn’t seem like diarrhea so I am guessing it is from the raspberry ketones getting rid of extra waste from my body? I am not sure. I don’t feel particularly ill but I have the “bubble guts” for lack of a better term. I went to the store and bought some Pepto and now I’m feeling better.
Today, my 30 minute activity will be rididng bikes with Brandon, my Brando! I am DEFINITELY looking forward to a good bike ride. I have been waiting for a chance to bike ride for a couple of weeks now so I am sure it is going to be fun. I am going to put on my music and just go. Another added bonus: The weather here in VA has been to die for which is adding to my enthusiam. Everyone in VA wants to be outside right now…LOL.
Alright, I have to run but I’ll be sure to keep you all updated on my 30 for 30 Weight-loss Challenge progress.
So I just heard on the news, after the news teaser, that fish oil does not reduce cardiovascular risks. Now, I am no doctor but I know that some vitamins in your system is better than none at all. Individuals are stating that humans will do better to EAT a piece of salmon than to take fish oil vitamins. Well, let me tell you this…easier said than done. First, I HATE fish so eating a piece of salmon is completely out of the picture. Secondly, for individuals to receive a high amount of fish oil, they would have to….guess what…eat a high amount of fish. What if the individual who is pregnant so raw fish would not be good for her. What if someone is on a diet so eating too much can ruin their diet. And, hm, never thought of this but what if the individual is allergic to seafood???? I am not sure if individuals with allergies would still be allergic to fish oil. That’s a question for a doctor. Also, fish oil takes less time to prepare. I just pop one in my mouth a few times a day as I see fit. Cooking salmon would take consierably more time.
I feel that America has a lot to lose if more and more humans start taking less vitamins which in turn means MORE trips to the doctor. Then the individual is stuck with medical bills, an illness anyway and the struggle to afford their necessary drugs.
I took my fish oil today and I have never felt better. I intend to continue to take fish oil vitamins along with my multivitamin, b-complex, hair nourish vitamins, etc. My hair is going great and my chest isn’t hurting from stress. Aside from my unwanted pounds, I would say I am in pretty good shape.
I don’t think taking vitamins can hurt you but NOT taking them might definitely have adverse affects.